The recent wedding of Prince William with Kate Middleton in England, now the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, captured the imaginations of millions around the world. Not only britons watched on the streets and on television, the rest of the word joined in, through the live telecast by BBC and you tube and were discussing it on twitter and Facebook. The guests’ arrival, their dresses and hats, the ceremony and the brides’ dress were watched with a glee and gusto quite surprising and bewildering. Nearly 2,000, 000 viewers globally watched the telecast. I was also caught up in the excitement, the main reason being a sense of satisfaction seeing two young people in love getting married and beginning their journey together, especially given the backgrounds they originate from.

Many questions were raised and imprinted in my mind after watching the ceremony and the numerous responses across the social media and online media. It seems incongruous that in the times of twitter, iPAD, Facebook, social media, and scientific and technological advancements, people are still fascinated with the prince weds princess stories and are craving to watch them proceed through the ceremony in the historically important and awe-inspiring Westminster abbey, go around in the carriage and waving at the public from the grand old palace (breathtaking, I must say).Yet, it happened. Touching scenes of britons, adoring their beloved royals, waiting for them patiently, really moved me as well as the amount of public interest generated across the net-o-sphere, ( including Indians and other members of the ex-colonies). This raised the question what is the reason for our fascination?

Why are we so fascinated with age old concepts like royalty, palaces, monarchies, tales of prince and princesses in this modern age? For that matter, why do I keep reading old literary classics set in bygone eras, which have atleast no relevance in today’s times.And yet I do and I miss the bygone and fast disappearing traditions/customs. What is it that we are looking for or we feel we are afraid of losing or we want to hold onto? Is it traditions? Traditions, as can be seen, through this event and many other similar events taking place in the world, give a sense of comfort, a sense of security in a fast changing world. A world, buffeted by strife, troubles, economic crises and rapid changes and dissolution of societal rules and ethics and facing uncertainities. That is why for example, in my view, royalty is revered in so many places like Japan and Thailand.

But while, they do give comfort and stability, how relevant are these symbols of a different era to the present world? This is not an easy question to answer. There are people who will take either sides in this debate. When I mean relevance, I mean relevance as in terms of economy, meaning to society, adding value to today’s time, culture and rapidly evolving global society. for e.g. it is widely known that the Prince of Wales supports many charities. Their active participation in social causes may also be beneficial.Most of the important figures are always associated with some or other causes. In times of stress and turbulence, their presence gives some consolation and support in the form of authority and safeguard and emotional support. In crises, emotional support and building up resilience.

Most importantly,they also symbolize national pride and the patriotic instincts of people and a symbol of unity especially when nowadays most countries live under the threat of revolts, terrorists, social change,and other agents of discord. They serve to remind people about the glorious past and history and to remind them to take pride in them. But history is history and what about the future?

The future of these symbols are no longer so secure as before. Changes are taking place in many places. Nepal, for example. People looking for a more egalitarian society are opposing these structures. The younger generation may hold these structures as no longer in tune with them.

The continuous existence and survival of these systems would require them to be a part of the current times.It requires the adherents to be adaptable and to lessen the gap between them and the people. To reduce the feeling that they may be parasitic on the ordinary people.

In my view, the future would be charted out by how the young generations take up their role as part of the old guard and at the same time representing the modern generation. That would be the challenge for William and Kate, as well as other modern day ‘aristocrats’ who represents the bridging of the gap. This young couple show a lot of promise and hope and their balancing of the age old traditions and the modernity,which they represents would be widely watched. In this respect, there would be heightened expectations on them and the pressures of inevitable comparisons to their famous and less happier parents. Will they survive or be stifled under the pressures of public surveillance and family pressures?

Let us hope for the the best. In the meantime, let us enjoy and reliven the tale of a modern day prince and princess, who fell in love and got married

8 thoughts on “Kings, Queens and Princesses :Viable or Redundant ?

  1. #First and for most, pls do let me know, What made U change Ur ‘mind’, CoZ U had asked me
    to ‘please do not , reply to my blog’, henceforth w.e.f ‘Mornings’ ur previous ‘Blog’ ……. ??????
    Chandra ………….

    1. cos i felt as a blogger I should be prepared for criticisms of all kinds and it was kind of immature to react like that. Secondly, though i felt a bit hurt by what you said, later i felt i can learn something from the criticism and I know that when i wrote my post, I was not motivated by the reasons you attributed to me. I am an introvertish person and i love observing and watching things. My personality is completely different from such an active person as you so probably you wont appreciate my thoughts from my viewpoint

  2. *We all grew up under d influence of ‘fantacies’ be it ‘Cindrela’, ‘Phantom’, ‘Tarzan’, ‘Spider Man’
    , ‘Sherlok Homes’, ‘James Bond’, ‘Cow Boys’, ‘War Fictions’, ‘Ideals – Nelson Mandela, Mahatmaji, Mother Teresa, Queen Elizabeth, Obama, Abdul G.Khan, Statue of Liberty, Taj Mahal’
    *Even ‘Archiological Survey’ have been asked to keep all d ‘Monuments’ intact as before ……
    *The fine print is embeded in the back of our ‘mind’ & it gets ‘Charged up’, if any such occasion arrives be it any ‘festivity’ or in d case of ‘demise’ say #SriSathyaSai ……..
    *In #Nepal, things wont hv changed much, had there been ‘no’ #henious crime performed by
    King ‘Birendra’ agst his own family members & was condemed thru out d World …….
    *William & Kate were into relationship for over 9 years as ‘general public’, similar to ‘Diana’
    & d occasion came after 30yrs, so a blend of all age Group, d World over were anxiously,
    waiting for this day to come, such reactions are bound to happen, irrespective of, how so ever advanced U may be & i am sure, if such an event takes place again after 20yrs, things wont change CoZ we all want to see our ‘dreams’ turn into ‘reality’ ………
    *These traditions are in every parts of d World & we all need that kind of spectacles to ‘see’,
    I had mentioned in your previous ‘blog’ #Mornings, U need to come out of d World U r in &
    there is a different World besides that, but unfortunately, U took a different view of it, now U
    are saying the same thing which I had already mentioned ………..
    *Now, U tell me what do U understand from the mood of d ‘people’, who came to see just one
    Glimpse of ‘Kate & William’ & d Occasion ……. see that’s #Life is all about, it has so many
    shades, which may or may not be d ‘reflection’ of the other & yet a new ‘Story’ …….
    I may be ‘Wrong’ but, ‘mood’ of #Billions is d ‘same’, inspite of the facts, that they all represent the busy schedule of our #Society, the World over ……. & last but not the least,
    #Two people get into an ‘Affair’ & enter into #relationship by keeping their #Love alive for
    9yrs is a fine example set for others to follow & see how much ‘pain & patience’ have gone
    into it & finally they put a ‘Stamp’ on that relationship, by concluding a #Royal KISS ……
    What happens after, is neither for U or me or d Society to decide, we all should #Pray for
    their success in #LIFE ………
    Chandra Shekhar , @BrooklynTea

  3. Its a wierd imagination! I really think that, this royalty and modern life is no way connected. I am happy that atleast we are not suffering from that. May be thex will be engaged in all those charities, it is no way an inspiration for younger generation. And how could you say that royalty could make more unity? I really don’t think that it can add any values to todays modern life. But somewhere i believe that the kings time will be far better than todays world, even though they don’t add any values to life.

    Thanks.
    Vivek

  4. Aah… Did i questioned u personally? And i request u to take comments more lightly. I never meant to question you and its so bad u read it in wrong way.

    Rgds
    vivek

  5. Hope they live happily ever after!
    Should not be like Diana and Charles 😦
    We like these spectacles because they bring to life the fairy tales we all have read.
    Also, we can forget our everday problems for a few hours in this fairy tale come alive!

    Every single woman would have wished to be in Kate Middleton’s place that day!

    1. yeah. though i am not too sure whether if I had been a single woman, I would have liked to be in kate middleton’s shoes. the history of the royal family, the straitlacedness and all that being such, it would have been more of a golden cage for me.

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